Hong Kong Fashion Trade Council

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This most innovative representation from Hong Kong showcased a trifecta of talent. Held at Industria, this show crackled with energy and originality. The first designer was Harrison Wong, winner of the prestigious Hong Kong Young Designer's Contest, as well Japan's Grand Prix Contest. The collection was inspired by artist Mark Rothko, focused on a mid 20th century vibe. I loved the blacks and grays with bold shots of orange and electric blue.  I love menswear, and many pieces were very chicly unisex. The oversized sweatshirts and chopped up puffer coat detailing were some highlights. The super modern and fresh collection was refreshingly wearable. It was a very strong way to start the show, and a nice reminder that fashion is indeed meant to enhance our daily lives. Street wear at its utmost best.                   

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 Next came designer and visionary tailor, Annette Chan. Her brand, Anveglosa, features leather in the most feminine way. Tea length leather skirts in black, white, and burgundy trailed in soft, buttery waves. The effect was lovely.  Leather goods can often be so stiff, but here it was as ladylike as possible. Head to toe mono chrome topped with matching berets, the key hat of the season, emitted Parisian class. Grommet detailing and intricate leather cutouts kept the unexpected coming. Chan was inspired by female creativity, which was certainly evident in this sophisticated, elegant collection.       

The third designer was the duo of Heaven Please. This team applies art, music, and literature to their creations. The collection was inspired by the novel "Wrong Number" by Liu Yichang. Employing the notion of artistic pop, Heaven Please mixed retro 50's American with modern Hong Kong style. Bold prints, bright colors, oversize ruffles, and tulle straps packed quite a visual punch. These clothes are for the woman who owns her originality and wears it proudly. She experiments, she is daring. My favorite component were the cleverly incorporated words and logos.       

The show represented the best in Hong Kong fashion, giving the audience a wide spectrum in range of design. Three very different designers sending three different messages. It was a fantastic show that wowed from start to finish. It's very exciting to see the genius that continues to emerge from Hong Kong.

What I wore that day was not so basic black underneath a giant, primary color, color block coat. Vintage 80's, I borrowed it from dear friends. My black Mohawk knit hat was the obvious topper. My bag that day was a backpack shaped like an owl, that I recently bought in tel Aviv at Plazmalab, this crazy cool boutique. The backpack was perfect for "glamping" at NYFW. The true highlight of the day for me was meeting Real Housewives of Atlanta, Phaedra Parks. Phaedra always stood out as a strong, intelligent, centered woman who has emerged from a series of tough spots with grace and clarity. She is a devoted and loving mother, a lawyer, and a businesswomen. She has always had her shit together in the most challenging of times. I made a dash for her, and she didn't blink at seeing this crayola mohawked lunatic charging at her. See? Composure. Housewives unite! She was so warm and inviting, which did not surprise me. Bravo, Phaedra!  Thank you for being the icing on my three tiered fashion cake from Hong Kong ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฐ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฐ.

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Tadashi Shoji

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My favorite look from the show

My favorite look from the show

  Day 1 of NYFW started with a ladylike bang, at the Tadashi Shoji show. Bold colors, strategic cutouts, and ultra feminine silhouettes were the key components. Magenta, deep purple, emerald greens, Royal blue, and some black thrown in for good measure. My favorites were the metallic sequined pieces. Throw me back to anything reminiscent of disco fabulosity. There was a bronze metallic sequined pantsuit that I was salivating over. Tadashi designs clothing that truly celebrates women. We are not the same as men, there's no point in pretending we are. Equal, yes, but women are indeed our own special breed. Owning our femininity is a wonderful gift. When a male designer helps us shine in our natural state, it's a true partnership of the sexes. Fluid, vibrant, dresses draped in all the right places that make a woman's body so special, simultaneously emanating strength. The cleanliness of the monochrome was striking. The designs were easy on the eyes while the details were so prevalent. The overall effect was extreme enhancement and appreciation for the female form.  It was a beautiful show, and an exciting way to kick off the week's events.

That day I wore my favorite NYFW ensemble. My long, deconstructed plaid Commes Des Garcon coat, a voluminous black patent leather skirt from Rosie Assoulin, and  a lace turtleneck with bell sleeves. I felt like British royalty. Given the highly tailored, edgy feel to the outfit, I wanted to balance it out with some romance. I requested a soft milkmaid braid from the stylist, a hairstyle I have never been interested in. Always trust your instincts; this worked so well together. The mood was edgy romance, with some punk given by the red plaid. "I will love you more than anyone you've ever known. But don't piss me off". That was the tag line in my head, and I dug it big time. I was fortunate enough that day to have been noticed by the photographer from Cosmo, leading to a feature in their online street style looks. Such an honor! So much planning goes into creating original looks for Fashion Week, so it was extra exciting to see my efforts somewhere other than the mirror. Or my phone when I took selfies๐Ÿ˜‰.

It is one of the blessings of the blog; being able to participate in a business that celebrates creativity, originality, and the beauty of women. I'm most grateful to have been in attendance at the stunning Tadashi show, and to have been recognized for my own styling. It was a fantastic day, and the perfect way to fire off the proverbial gun of New York Fashion Week.

Smiles are pretty, LB

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Photo credit-

Ni Oyeung - @flyingunicorn_ni 

Percy Alban - @percyalban 

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Mad Hatter

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I love hats! This gem is my all time fave. I've had it for 17 years, and I've yet to come across anything like it. It's a rose ๐ŸŒทcolored, spray painted fedora. It involves dragons and a lotus print. At the time of purchase, I had no idea how much the image of the lotus would come to mean to me. The ๐Ÿ‰as well. Strength, growth, individuality, and uniqueness are all somehow represented in this hat.

I like to offset a strong black outfit with this topper. I like that in a basic black outfit you don't see something like this coming. This is not an accessory for a boring woman. I say that proudly. I love a hat tilted a drop forward and cocked jauntily to the side. I've always worn my hats like that. This one seems to do that on its own. It carries my entire look. Clothing is pretty much the support here. This hat deserves, and claims, her spotlight. All I have to do is plop her on my head (lol, think Harry Potter sorting hat).

Truthfully, these aren't my best photos, the lighting wasn't great in that room when we shot, but I don't care. This hat is too special to not have its moment. Buy yourself a standout accessory that is strong and beautiful. If hats aren't for you, make it a wild scarf. Even awesome, visible socks with rolled up jeans can make an outfit. A spray painted purse or backpack. A badass belt buckle. Wacky shoes. Your manicure.  Have fun with your details. Just be proud to own it. There is some part of you that breathes fire๐Ÿ‰, even if you haven't found it yet.
       ๐Ÿฒ๐ŸŒท, Me

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Princess Pajamas

 Blue on blue in my Bed to Brunch๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™.

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The patterns this company uses are so wonderful, and each set looks different. Stripes, shapes, piping, contrast, and tone on tone are some of the ways each pajama set has its own unique flavor, thereby adding maximum use to my closet. The only accessories I needed here were a bed and some decadent chocolate truffles. While the first two PJ posts focused on going out, for this look we wanted to show how staying at home under the covers is often the yummiest, most delicious place to be.

Whether you're alone with your remote or a good book, with a bestie (of course grown ups can bunk in together!) or with your guy, up your stay-cation game with easy glam. It's just as doable to wear a pair of silk pajamas than it is to put on that ratty concert t-shirt and stretched out boxer shorts. Not that we don't love those items, but still. No matter where you are or who you're with, you deserve to feel effortlessly beautiful.

There's a reason it's called "beauty rest"๐Ÿ›Œ๐ŸŽ€๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿผ. So when your friend asks you the next day,"where did you go last night and what did you wear?",  your response will be,"I went to my living room and wore silk PJs." FOMO alert. A chick that can own her solo downtime like a boss, enjoying her own company, now that's a girl I need to hang with. If that's you, Girl, please hit me up ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ“ž๐Ÿ›. Goodnight, Ladies. Tonight, as well as tomorrow, belongs to you.

Layla Tov, Lady Blaga

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Pajama Party 2.0

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Hey, you're still invited to the coolest slumber party of 2018! Think of the slumber party scene in Grease. That was at Frenchie's house, right? "Look at me, I'm Lady B..." 

Since Bed to Brunch, my fave chic pajama company, graciously gifted me with three gorgeous sets, I bring to you the second look. I must have been channeling Gloria Swanson with this turban, which I just brought back from my recent trip to Israel. Some folks bring back meaningful trinkets that hold deep religious significance; I brought home this hat and this emerald green coat. While shopping on King George street in tel Aviv, I came across this incredible boutique, Plazmalab. Serious cutting edge, avant guard pieces.

Working off the jewel tones colors of the pajamas, so I could convert the pair into outerwear, I chose this coat/robe and belted it with this LB staple bet. My giant Michael Kors belt that you've seen a million times, works its way into every shoot, proof that one solid accessory can support so many different looks. I've gotten great feedback from readers saying how much they love that I reuse things so much. That really is how I dress, and the mark of style is knowing how to do that. I feel much more creative when I come up with new ways to use a piece. Who has time or bank for new things on a regular basis? Which is why a beautiful pajama set doing double duty is such a helpful ensemble to own. Oh, and these shiny, hot pink slipper type of loafers๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿผ. A statement flat is a super chic way to take this set out of the bedroom. Perfect for brunch, a day on the town, or F it and be the most interesting looking woman at the grocery store๐Ÿ–•๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป. With the right shoe, coat, and accessories, pajamas become a suit. Now if only we could figure out how to make those footed fleece onesies cool๐Ÿค”.
Off to the nearest B and B, your ๐Ÿ

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Thank, Hugh

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RIP to the inimitable Hugh Hefner, who died this passed year. Hef gave the world permission to worship the female form on a public level. He was a revolutionary, an icon, and a lover of life. This post is my little homage to him, since it's about a look we both seem to favor above all else; silk pajamas for all occasions.

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This fantastic company Bed to Brunch so generously gifted me three gorgeous pajama sets. I fell in love with this trend several years ago, and stupidly paid through the nose for a set, since at the time it was the coolest option I'd seen. However, with pretty pjs having a major moment, it's easier to find well priced, well made sets that can be worn in and out of bed. Sets to wear together, or broken up so the pieces can have added use. Pajamas are so versatile.

Here I dressed up this burgundy pair with leopard heels, a chunky statement necklace, and a blue coat that is the same color as the blue piping on the pajamas. I've had this Rebecca Taylor coat for 18 years. It has never been properly used until now. It kinda looked like a glam bathrobe, which obv was the perfect topper to bedroom fashion. This is one of my favorite ensembles of all time. It's comfortable, glamorous, unexpected, daring, and totally pulled together in five minutes. When a woman walks in wearing this, she clearly owns whatever room she's in. The rich color scheme lends gravity to the intrinsic whimsy of this look. The pajamas are also beautifully tailored, so there was no ice cream in bed shlump factor. Bed to Brunch has made glamorous comfort both beautiful and affordable. Now excuse me as I take these off, put on an evening gown, and climb into bed to watch netflix.

Sweet dreams, day or night, LB

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Marbleization

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So this is clearly NOT an outfit you'd wear everyday๐Ÿ˜†. This is a showstopper. I loved the marbleized pattern. There's movement to it, not an obvious effect given the aim to look like, well, marble. I thought the romper was so cool, especially with the high neck and cargo pocket detailing. This romper has edge. It's not a flirty little thang. Neither is her Big Sis of a jacket. I love things that are large in scale. And what chick doesn't feel like an itty bitty pretty lady in a giant coat? Cue saying to your man, "I'm sooo cold, can I borrow your jacket. My dainty little bones require extra insulation." Even if it's 90 degrees. I'm learning men like jobs, so they'll give you their coat every time. If they don't, they're male instincts suck, so run.
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The jacket is effortless in its oversized look. It is relaxed yet has purpose. The effect of both pieces having the same material packs a punch, but the bare legs make it not overwhelming. This ensemble is another Norma special. Wearable, pack able, light, comfortable, and unique. It's also modular in that each piece can most certainly be worn on its own. The jacket will dress up any basic jeans and tee look. The romper is delicious, and can be dressed up to LBD status with heels and opaque black tights. The tights take it to colder weather. Dress it up with bold but clean jewelry. A chunky earring or cuff. Nothing wimpy that will get lost. Chunky high heeled boots ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป, like I have on in the pic. I recently wore the jacket over a long black better dress and motorcycle boots. Both pieces are truly versatile. Don't shy away from pattern. Embrace it and use it to top your classic palette. The neutrality of the color scheme makes it widely usable. This look can be dressy, while the anorak feel of the jacket is also "yeah, whatever" cool. So, item to add to your wardrobe: a relaxed fit, boldly patterned jacket in neutral colors. The romper is more taste specific, it's not for everyone. Whatever your preferred style is, experiment this season with scale and detail. A little goes a long way, and a wisely purchased piece can blast your basics for years to come.

Much Love, Marble Mama๐Ÿ““

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Navy Seal

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Chic, chic, chic! I don't think I've ever worn something like this, but I loved it. The clean navy on navy is understated and wonderfully monochrome. The outfit gets a Blaga like pop of iridescence with the accessories. After all, I said clean and chic, not flat and boring. This boyfriend coat is my new fave winter purchase. It's a gem from Carven that I found at Century 21. I felt it was a tad roomy at the store, then decided I'd embrace the loose fit. Over this easy Theory sweater dress, the coat becomes an essential part of a strong, ladylike look. I felt like a businesswoman dashing to a meeting. Pretty and powerful๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿป.

The gold gloves against the navy was fabulously regal. Love those gold foil Norma Kamali gloves from her current season! Nothing I'm wearing here is the same designer, yet it's all pulled together by using a couple of the same fashion principles. Start with pairing two pieces together in the same color family. That's your foundation. Then just jazz it up with accessories that have personality, whether it's a bright, fun colored purse, or a statement shoe that will liven things up. Classy by no means has to mean conservative. Lady B doesn't do conservative, it's just not my thing. I look at this ensemble as a metaphor for me trying to hold my tongue and choose silence...Right before I burst and run my big mouth off with whatever two cents I must add๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ‘„. "I really just want to hang out with quiet, boring people with no opinions", said NO ONE EVER. Wavy Navy๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿป, LB

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Grey Gardens

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Shout out to one of my FAVE movies ever, "Grey Gardens". The tale of Kennedy cousins living in squalor on the outskirts of the Hamptons, singing show tunes and wearing pants as hats endlessly fascinates me. It's frightening how seemingly normal, successful people can go completely off the rails...

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Instead of wearing pants on my head, I wore a skirt as a kilt and a sweater as a top๐Ÿ˜‚. This soft grey Christopher Kane ensemble from my adored boutique Gito, is a study in monochrome. There are a few lovely things happening here; pleats, satin, sparkle, cashmere, midi length, turtleneck, bunched up sleeves, and delicate metal detailing. Whoosh; how's that for a Christmas list? This outfit makes me feel like a classy holiday Hostess With The Mostess. It's winter glam at its best. While I'm busy entertaining (or looking like I am during a photo shoot๐Ÿ“ธ๐Ÿ˜‰), this is a clean, feminine look.  It's the perfect special party outfit.

The tone on tone and sparkly detail are a crisp combo on the eye. The well placed skirt and sweater slits break up all the fabric and add sexiness. This isn't your typical snoozy sweater and skirt set. Grey sheer nylons and suede pumps drive home the one color from head to toe. The hose tie in the legs in a subtle yet complete manner. A story about this outfit. I mean, of course I have a story about this outfit; you know who you're dealing with by now. If you're just joining the Blaga movement, well then, welcome to the blog where clothing is anecdotal, accessories lead to therapy revelations, and coats hide some wacky shit!

I wore this to a family event last year. A relative laughed and said ,"I'm shocked you're dressed so modestly. Conservative isn't you." ER...Mazal Tov? This really hurt my feelings, and I'm usually pretty easygoing. I'm certainly very self deprecating and can take a joke. I felt extremely labeled by that remark. Was the implication that I usually dress in a scanky way?? This comment was made by someone I really love and admire, and while I'm certain no malice was meant, it felt like a jab. My style is eclectic, and I never look the same. I'm always pulling new fashion tricks out of my four kid mom butt. It felt strange to have my style be tied into "modesty". This outfit didn't define that idea for me. I just liked it because it's beautiful. Should I not be wearing a turtleneck sweater since I'm "immodest". Again, this just felt like a weird, hurtful jab. I'm over it, but I clearly recall how I felt at the time. Anyway, wear studs with this. And I love a nude, pinkish lip with grey for a soft effect.
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Secret; I could never really wear this while entertaining. I'd be sweaty and stained in two minutes. Props to the ladies in Spanx  and heels that cook and serve the apps, that control all in control top. Topping off drinks in a turtleneck. I need to feel very loose and comfy to do my hostess gig. It puts me in a better mood which allows me to set the right mood for my peeps. And some non-peeps who I had to include๐Ÿ™„. Kidding, I have an unapologetically strict Peeps Only rule. What feels right to you will set a wonderful mood for everyone else. Your oxygen mask goes on first, right? Breathe, they'll be leaving soonโคด๏ธ๐Ÿšช.

Happy holidays. โค๏ธ,Little Jessie

TuTu Cool

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I'll cop to a Carrie Bradshaw moment of inspiration here. This skirt is actually the crinoline for a dress I have. It occurred to me recently to wear it as a fun skirt. It isn't see through and has good circumference so it totally passes. I stuck to a black and white palette here to play up the feminine tuxedo vibe.

A cream lace top under my tried and true asymmetrical Helmut Lang tuxedo jacket. I think it's 12 years old. This look is streamlined and classic even though we are playing with tulle and detailed lacework. I pulled classic black and white pieces that don't have any former ties to each other, and made an outfit. You know I love a look that's both feminine and strong at once. Brava๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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One D๐Ÿค˜๐ŸปโŒโญ•๏ธ

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Hey, thereโ€ผ๏ธ How are ya todayโ“So this shirt holds meaning for me for several reasons. I love the boy band One Direction, and am not over the fact that they broke up. I mean I'm not obsessed with them like I am over Led Zeppelin, but their music gives me a huge kick in the pants. That being said, the solo efforts of Zayne, Niall, and Liam have been very impressive. I did NOT see the Liam thing coming. I'd assumed he'd be the one to fade into oblivion. I happily stand corrected!

Since the group is no longer, that makes this shirt a collectors item. I do love the baseball T style, just the right dose of tomboy "yeah whatever". The other, and more important reason why I love this shirt is because my mother in law bought it for me. Awhile back, when she was pretty ill with cancer, she insisted on taking my girls to the One D pop up shop in Times Square. She was so cute, she kept referring to the band as One Dimension. That store was a madhouse, and I went so that she wouldn't get washed away in a sea of fandom. She loved comparing this to Beatlemania. We loved hearing her wax nostalgic about her own adolescent musical tastes. She honestly wasn't really up for this outing, but she wanted to keep her promise to her granddaughters, that she'd go with them. This shirt was her gift to me that day. Mothers in law typically buy other kinds of gifts; jewelry, Shabbos candlesticks, a purse etc. But mine got the perfect thing for me.  It was an unique, fun gift indicative of our unique, fun bond. We both got a big kick out of silly stuff like this.

I'm grateful she insisted on going, despite my trying to convince her to stay home and rest. My girls have a beautiful memory of their Baba. What better concert merch is thereโ“Making memories from music is everlasting. The embroidered bell bottoms, a style my MIL loved back in her day, were the perfect pairing. I actually began this look with the jeans. Yeah, it could have worked with a white t shirt, but that's so boring. The fun jeans required the right top to maintain the kicky mood throughout. The red in both pieces works together. I love how ๐Ÿ”ด keeps working its way into my outfits. Such a bold, proud color. These jeans were a real find at Century 21, when I was hunting for cool stuff for Fashion Week. Treasure troveโ€ผ๏ธ. I'm going to have fun wearing these... As far as my life in general, things are moving in One Direction๐Ÿ’Œ๐Ÿ”.

Only way to go is forward and up. Thanks, Mom, for continuously inspiring me in so many ways. Look what we got from just buying a silly t shirt... โŒโญ•๏ธโŒโญ•๏ธ, Lady Blaga

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Jewel Toned Jewess

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Lol this title ๐Ÿ˜‚โ€ผ๏ธ Hey, Man, always be loud and proud๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป. Of both your heritage, and the way you look. Sometimes, pride is simply found in getting up to take a shower that includes hair washing. When we feel very overwhelmed or down, even basic cleanliness can feel like too much to deal with. I get it. I've been there. You can't tell based on all these picture perfect images,  that is the result of a terrific glam squad and an ultra talented photographer. Yes, I can style an outfit. I enjoy that creative process.


Just understand that these photos represent a certain moment in time. I don't always look like this. I'm not always in a good, balanced mood. I've had to overcome and deal with many difficulties in life, as well as typical petty nonsense. I work on my headspace constantly. It's the best investment we can possibly make.  However, I am at a place where I feel more balanced than ever. I'm stronger, more aware of how complete I am, and have better coping mechanisms and tools to react in a manner in which I deserve.  What I mean by that is, when I react badly I feel badly. When I respond patiently and retain composure, I feel proud and good. How we react to things is one of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves. The recipient of your response gets over it much quicker than you do. You'll carry that shit around for days. Don't punish yourself.             

Now let's talk style. My smile is so wide and bright here because I love this freaking outfit! It made me so happy to wear it. I began with the shimmery orange pleated skirt. I was on the hunt for a midi length pleated skirt, and found this gem at Maje. I love the combination of subtle shine and structure of the pleats. This length skirt is so cool and versatile. Cool sneakers, a pump, high heeled boots, or a loafer. I looooooved these shiny, magenta ones. You had me at "shiny and magenta". A basic loafer is too conservative for me, but it's indeed a very clean, practical shoe. The shoe gods smiled upon Lady B by making this pair this way. Thanks, Dudes๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป.

The pink and orange don't compete with each other here. They are like two cool pals in on the same joke, exchanging a secret wink๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰. They get each other. The skirt is the bigger item obviously, but it's not in your face. The look calms down as it goes up, leading up to the crisp blue/black t shirt. I rolled up the sleeves to sharpen it more. A crisp sleeve roll can make a look, whether it's on a button down, t shirt, blazer, or coat. Topping off this outfit is a vintage black leather cap that I usually wear to the front. It's amazing what a tiny adjustment can do. That's a metaphor, think about that one... By turning the cap back and to the side, it instantly became softer and more playful. Front wouldn't have looked right here. It's too strong. I only knew that once I futzed around with it. I felt quite French and tres chic๐Ÿ’‹!  Above all, this was really comfortable. A t shirt, looser skirt, and flats; ingredients for wearable comfort food. Yummy๐Ÿ˜‹. I haven't worn colors this bright in awhile. It felt good! Ya can't be pissed when you're dressed like this. Every choice we make determines the flow of our day. Every single one. It's all part of mindfulness, knowing what works for us in all areas. Pleats and Thank You, The ๐Ÿ

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Tweedy Bird

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J'adore a cool suit! Having been forced to wear them in my youth, as in from the time I was 10, I naturally became revolted by them and took a long hiatus. Elementary school girls need not look like they are en route to chair the annual  Hadassah luncheon. I didn't shop for myself, but I think that may just have been the style in the 80's. Thanks, Dynasty! Suits, SHOULDER PADS, double breasted everything, oy vey. That look suited almost no one. The right suit, however, is a fabulous wardrobe essential. When worn in an unexpected way, you take an old classic and instantly make it cool and current. My suits of yesteryear were worn with white tights ugly pumps, and a pin of some sort. A pin??? I was not allowed to leave the house unless my hair was straightened. I was essentially indiscernible from every Bubbie.

I re embraced suits several years ago, loving how chill they could look with a cool t shirt and sneakers. I love menswear, and I feel thin when my clothing is a little loose on me๐Ÿ˜, so a relaxed fit works beautifully. This J crew spring tweed never lets me down. It's pulled together, whether I'm wearing a classic fitted button down or a funny t shirt. I like to juxtapose the inherent seriousness of a suit with humor underneath. Otherwise we are back to Carrington territory. I like my clothing to have personality and some kind of easy message. One day that message might be strength, one day glamour, one day funny. Mood dependent. This time I put on a witty T from Unfortunate Portrait and old school Doc Martens, another classic. I dress super quickly, and this outfit really put me on the express lane. Three pieces, shoes, out the door. The jacket looks great on, off, or over the shoulders. Cool, comfortable, clean. Tweed doesn't mean Town and Country uptight. T shirts don't mean shlumpy. Doc Martens don't mean you're clinging to your youth. Nothing means anything. It's all how you feel.

Kill it today, LB

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College Dropout

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Fun fact: I did not graduate college. I have one semester remaining. I was pregnant with my daughter, and was on bed rest while my classmates took their finals. My life was just in a different stage already. It doesn't bother me, and I'm lucky that not having that degree has not affected my life. Of course I wholeheartedly believe in the great importance of education, but the fact of the matter is, is that I'm technically a college dropout.

Right now I have no plans to go back, but who knows?  Maybe I'll be one of those 75 year old women who gets to finally put on a cap and gown, while her classmates cheer like mad for the old lady who finally graduated ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ“š. Omg, those caps are so stupid looking๐Ÿ™„.

BUT, dressing like a student is something I can do! Youthful delusions aside, since I still feel like I'm 16 in some ways, I can most def rock a varsity jacket๐Ÿ˜Ž. This bright green Maje jacket was too cool for school. Needed! I adore jackets and all sorts of outerwear. I've never had a varsity jacket, and was excited to add this to my collection. Most of my coats date back many years. A good piece, like a good brain, is always in style. I never understood that age old idea of high school girls acting like morons to get boys to like them. Why would anyone act dumb, at any point in life?? Being smart, studious, and educated is of vital importance. I'd be so sad if my daughters ever felt that they had to just sit there and foolishly giggle around boys. A smart chick is rad.

This jacket is a distinct style and color, but it's versatile. Wear it over jeans, a long pleated skirt, tailored black slacks, or over loose athletic pants like I did here. These pants are from Sweaty Betty, a line of workout wear (I refuse to say athleisure). The key is the tapered ankle to clean up the look. Cool sneakers would be great here, but I had to make use of the green by putting on my platform oxfords with the same shade๐Ÿ’šAn Oxford is also a classic collegiate shoe, so that was the kicky themeโœ๏ธ๐Ÿ”’๐Ÿ“—. I'm giving myself a โœ”๏ธ for this cute outfit. Or, if you were a fan of the 90's show "In Living Color", I'll give myself "two snaps, a twist, and a kiss" ๐Ÿ’‹.

Be smart, always. Dumb yourself down for no one ever.

Love, Lady B+

How To Be a Unicorn ๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„

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Oh boy, did I love wearing this outfitโ•โ•โ•
Cute, cozy, and comfortable is all one needs to ease into cooler Fall weather. Who knew a mini skirt and thigh high boots could be so comfyโ”

It is such a major ๐Ÿ™„ when celebrities on the red carpet preach how they chose their needle embroidered, skintight gown made of fair trade, recycled burlap "because it's was soooo comfortable! And it has pockets!!!" Stars, they're just like us๐Ÿ™„. How dumb do they think we are? Um, that's not why your stylist made you wear that, and you're never going to appear down to earth๐ŸŒŽ.  Unless your name is Cate Blanchet; she can do no wrong ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป.

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I swear, this was a joy to put on. Easy building blocks that I'm sure you already own; a miniskirt, cool tights, boots, and a cute sweater. Done and done. Flat boots for day, heeled boots for night. I bought this Aqua sweater while shopping with my daughter. We were at the mall for her. She loves Aqua, so we headed there first. There was a stack of adorable statement sweaters. I think I literally lunged for this unicorn one. The image of a ๐Ÿฆ„ is a statement unto itself; it's a magical, rare creature that exists in myth. To liken someone to a unicorn is to speak of how unique and rare they are. How to find someone like them is almost impossible. What high praise๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป. How wonderful to own your originality and uniqueness, and to wear it with an all knowing pride. I'm no dummy, I wanted this sweater specifically. I do indeed believe I'm an unusual person. I wouldn't have been drawn to the one with the sad lemming sitting in a corner ( fiction; I was using artistic license ). There was a fierce tiger one, but my daughter wanted that one ๐Ÿฏ, under the condition I could borrow it. Fine. The sacrifices we make for our kids๐Ÿ˜œ.

I love when one of my style posts morphs into something with a message. Those are some of my favorite pieces to write. Oh, and the whimsical, relaxed fit of the sweater prevents you from looking like a hooker. See, everybody wins๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป.

Love you the most, LB

Again With the Red๐Ÿ”ดโ‰๏ธ

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Oops, I did it againโ—๏ธ. Remember that red vinyl jumpsuit that Brit wore in this video? Classic Spears. The day she shaved her head in a paparazzi meltdown will forever live in infamy. I was at my sister in law's house in Montreal, reading the headlines about poor Brittany. We once attended the sold out show at MSG when Brit was at the top of her game. Now this. I called my sister in law and said, I think you need to sit down...

Red thoughโ™จ๏ธ. This power color continues to ketchup to me๐Ÿ…๐Ÿ˜‰ (that was a cute bun. I mean pun). This outfit is not only two separate pieces from two different designers, but I got them both at Century 21. My most observant readers ๐Ÿ•ต๐Ÿป will notice that the pants are from the Wonder Woman concept I wore at Fashion Week. They're huge scale palazzo pants with a slit. The effect is like a long skirt. The pants are Jazmin Chebar. The Antonio Berardi top was the absolute perfectly matched shade of red. Fashion magic when this happens. Not only does this look like it is one designer, but it looks like a gown. A streamlined, beautifully detailed gown with a feminine neck and chill pockets. The rich red is so strong, which lessens the ladylike effect. I like that ๐Ÿ’„๐Ÿ‘ .

I'm totes a girl, but I like clothing with strength. The high neck was a great chance for the high pony. I've never paired  red with light blue, but this vintage Diane Von Furstenberg cuff worked so well. Its scale, chunky texture, and bold hue keep up in the ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผdepartment. The blue brings a lovely freshness. No wimpy accessories here! I loved the unexpected colors together. Strength is a good theme, right? Put that in your pipe and smoke it๐Ÿšฌ. Don't really smoke; it's bad for youโ€ผ๏ธ. But do think about monochrome. One color head to toe makes you one hot crayon. Be the one in the box they reach for first. Nothing like a Crayola analogy to brighten your day๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ“•.

Reddy Like Freddy, Lady in Red ๐Ÿ’Œ

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LBD on Track

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I love this LBD from DKNY. It's the perfect fitted, black tank dress. It's so versatile, sneakers, sandals, flip flops, heels will all work. It easily goes from day to night with a quick change of shoe, jacket, and bag. The zipper up the side is the only needed playful detail. There's stretch in the fabric, which makes it super comfortable. I love the accessories here; neon orange kitten heels, which are not only the perfect pop of color, but actually feet friendly. The track jacket is clearly athleisure (that dreaded fake word), so it's an unexpected layer for this dress.

I love how street chic this instantly became. While it's become such a thing to own comfy clothes one can exercise in, the same holds true for the reverse; own workout clothes you can incorporate into your mainstream wardrobe. It's innovative. Yes, I know we aren't splitting atoms here... Sporty black sunglasses jive with the chill vibe. This entire look works for day or night, since the shoes are a fun color and the heels are low. I'm not much of a high heel gal. After about 20 minutes I feel like I'm walking on stilts, which puts me in a crappy mood. Plodding around is never attractive. Props to the ladies who do it gracefully for an entire evening. Or throughout a whole workday๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป.

The sleeves of the jacket pushed up are everything. It's very "yeah, whatever", which is the right dose of urban attitude. A dress like this is definitely a wardrobe essential. Invest in a good one, and you'll have dozens of ways to construct an outfit. At the core of every layered look is the perfect starting point. Accessories and dogs are add ons๐Ÿฉ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ•ถ.

Loving this LBD, LB

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Queen of the Crop

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This two piece cropped situation is a Lady Blaga fave. It's DKNY doing its thang, mixing strength and womanhood. Structure and hotness. There is just the right sliver of tummy showing, while the rest of the top is built up and the skirt is long, resulting in subtle๐Ÿ”ฅ.

I love the bold print and neutral color scheme. This is a statement ensemble, in a very confident, assured way. This looks good with cool black sneakers, flats, or heels. DKNY is always versatile that way. The key accessory here is my adorable mini medicine tote. Classic yet dainty, again mixing moods like the outfit does. The bag is so cute with just the right dose of structure. Imagine prancing out of your doctor's office with all your fun prescription pills given in this tiny swag bag๐Ÿ’Š๐Ÿ’Š๐Ÿ’Š๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ค 

I love how A.V.I gave us an alternative sizing for a tote. Why are totes always so freaking huge??? Totes not necessary. All that's needed here are some yellow gold accessories, no necklace. Keep the look streamlined and in control. Remain that way throughout the entire day. Doctor's orders. Love, the B ๐Ÿ

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Kimono Karma

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Good karma is essential in life. When we feel good, we send those good vibes into the atmosphere. It will always return. We as humans are given great capacity to both give and receive. We receive on the Left, then send back with the Right.

Fun fact: When we are comfortable our moods are instantly better. Comfort yields happiness which yields us being a helluva lot nicer to those in our midst. Lady Blaga in a too tight anything makes for one pissed off, sausage encased woman. If I'm not feeling nice to myself, I've got nothing to recycle for anyone else. Bottom line, comfort is key.

One of the most wonderful trends in fashion is the whole pajama as outerwear concept. I've always loved this. It's the height of confidence and chic. This is a scenario where sleepwalking is most encouraged๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ’คโ€ผ๏ธ. This yummy, bright kimono is from the Bloomingdales nightwear section. I love pairing it with any sort of denim bottom. I'll usually go with bell bottoms, wedge shoes, and pile on the jewelry for a hippie vibe.

Here, since it was midsummer, I went with denim cut offs, a simple white tank, and little distressed cowboy booties. A braid of some sort makes complete sense. I always feel like a million bucks in this piece; it's just so pretty and effortless. It's also lovely to actually wear inside your home as well. Multiple usage is optimal. I have another longer kimono that is looser without its own belt, so I'll add my own and just blouse it. If a little lace just happens to peek out, everyone's a winner๐Ÿ˜‰.

Pay attention to your moods when you get dressed. You'll notice that when your clothing embraces you rather than suffocates you, you're like ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป. You'll get through your day/night/meeting/event feeling svelte and smiley ๐Ÿ˜€. Whereas the chick in the spanx and bandeau dress just arrived with a black cloud as her date. No thanks.

Hey, if we can't get the recommended eight hours of sleep at night, we've gotta try for them any way we can. Daydreams are beautiful๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜ด๐Ÿ‘˜. Love always, Lady Bed ๐Ÿ›Œ

Denim Squared

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You can never go wrong with any of the few pieces seen here. A faded wash denim button down, distressed denim cut offs, turquoise jewelry, and a broken in cowboy boot. Extra points for the boots being mini!

I love exaggerated scale, be it maxi or mini. These cute little Isabel Marant booties never fail. Denim on denim has been featured a ton over the past couple years. It's such a cool way of pairing a jean and classic button down. It can give off the illusion of a jumpsuit sometimes. The little rope belt gives just the right dose of detail in the middle of the two denims. It literally ties everything together.

This outfit is such a cool weekday move. It's very American girl next door while owning itself completely. Hey, Pal, YOU live next door to ME! The loose braid was the stroke of genius by my hair stylist, Danny. I haven't had a French braid since I was in camp as a kid, and I loved how this came out. So pretty and fresh. A relaxed braid worked well with the whole concept of structured yet relaxed. Double denim produces the singular result of ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿปevery time.

One tip; just make sure your different denims don't compete against each other. I can't put this into words but you'll know when you see it in the mirror. They should be different but somehow complimentary. Don't stress, it's not rocket science๐Ÿš€. Denim x denim =good times.

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